| Merlin: "I don't know what's his name, how he looks like and why do you like him."
Me: "I'm not any better than you. I only know his name, slowly forgetting how he looks like and I don't know why i like him."
Pitiful right? yeah.
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| Can we go out for a drink? I have something to tell you.
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| it has been raining almost the whole day. RAIN. is not good for the heart.
頑張ってね！
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| I remember one of my friends telling me this when i was really depressed 5 years ago after the breakup. He said whatever you are feeling at this moment - depressed, worried, stress etc., you will not remember them ten years down the road. At that point in time, i felt that what he said didn't make sense (i went to dig up the post i wrote then) because my stand was, how can someone forget the memories with her first boyfriend, right?
I was right because i will never forget those sweet memories, but my friend was right as well in the sense that now when i think about those moments when i cried every night, i can't remember exactly the pain that i went through. Probably it is not about not remembering how you feel ten years down the road but those feelings will become insignificant to you. You'll just look back and smile and be glad that you went through such a phase in your life which helps you to grow into the person you are today. It is true. I speak from experience.
I am glad i didn't act strong at that moment, i'm glad i cried every night, i'm glad i was depressed, i'm even more glad that i healed after that because at this very moment, i don't feel sad anymore about what happened and i am proud I went through that phase. For if not, i wouldn't have known what a relationship is and how do i need to prepare myself before i get into the next one. we learn from experience.
I believe you will heal and i know it takes time, but do remember people around you are looking out for you just in case you need a listening ear or a shoulder to cry on. Don't make those who care worry for too long. That is what i've learnt as well.
And if you are sad and stressed about exams, the same concept applies. Ten years down the road, what are exams seriously? What are exams results? A+, B+, C+? I can't even remember what my grade was for Anatomy in Year One, what more to say ten years from now when I am a mom (hopefully *fingers crossed*) who is preparing dinner for the family, will i even think about exams results? Obviously not.
For as long as we do not go out clubbing every single night when exams' round the corner, i think we all deserve to call ourselves good students, for we have all tried. =)
Let's do our best, friends, sad or stressed, let's move on together!
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